
Today, the floating thingy on my iGoogle page has reminded us that we are 32 weeks pregnant. Baby and Mommy are doing just fine. Doc this week said everything is on track, and our due date hasn’t changed. The little one has been moving like crazy (especially at night, when we’re trying to get to sleep). Either we have a drummer or a runner on our hands. Last night, I was able to almost “caress” the baby. How cool is that?
In class, we learned some relaxation techniques. During the exercises, I swore C was going to fall asleep. She didn’t…. but I nearly did. During the movie, we (well, okay, I) realized that having a baby is nothing like it is in the movies. Why can’t it be that way?
Jane: “Honey, its time”
John: “Holy crap! Let’s go!”
bumpy cab ride/hurried car drive to the hospital. Jane screams in anger. Arrive at hospital.
Jane (or John): “We’re having a baby!”
Doctor: “Congratulations! It’s a boy/girl”
They never really cover all that silly other stuff. Like the stages of labor, or the walking around the hospital waiting, or rocking on the “birth ball“. Knocked Up did a decent job of trying with a 30 second scene, but that’s about all I can remember. I guess the entertainment value of labor really isn’t high enough for the screenwriters.

I’m finding, the further we get into pregnancy, the less I was really paying attention to the numbers. Instead, I paid attention to her tummy, using that as my gauge to the progress. 10 weeks, 20 weeks, 31 weeks… All just numbers. But this past week, in our birthing class, I was reminded that at 37 weeks, we’re full term. 37 weeks. Another number. 5 weeks. 35 days.
The guest bedroom should be ready for visitors by the end of next weekend. The nursery will be ready for furniture in 2 weeks. Suddenly, 5 weeks becomes prevalent.
Had an epiphany yesterday while clearing the jungle. For years (but especially the past few months) our weekends have been as busy as our weekdays. Projects of various states of completion, hurtling towards completion on an accelerate schedule. Once they’re done and the baby’s here, what will we do with my time?
I’m sure something will come up.
Bowel shaking earthquakes of doubt and remorse