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Community (updated 2009.02.25)

Saturday, February 21st, 2009

Saturday had yet to surprise me. DD’s been sick (ear infection, congestion, sniffles), and now C was sick too (congestion, sniffles).  So I spent a good part of the afternoon chasing C around, in the hopes of keeping her down so she could get better. 

It must’ve been around 430 when I got to the point of trusting she’d stay down long enough for me to either fire up the snow blower, or get to the basement and do some sawing for another project. I decided sawing was in order.  I went out to the garage to get some supplies, and heard the sirens.  Now back in Chicago, sirens were no big deal.  But I’ve learned that’s the opposite here.  My family is prone to injury lately.  So when I hear sirens, I typically wait for the call to find out who’s going in, and what for. 

The call came at 443pm from Oz.  I listened from downstairs to catch C’s reaction (if she panics, go into flight mode).  I hear no panic, so I keep setting things up.  Then she yells down for me to come up.  Uh oh. 

My first words are “who’s going in?”. Thankfully, she just wants me to watch dd while she goes with her mom to check out the fire at the local “Independent Living Center”, Park Manor. Oz calls back a few minutes later.  Change of plans.

What we thought would be a minor fire has turned into 3 alarms. Folks are standing outside (many elderly), in the snow watching their home burn. We need to transport them to City Hall, 1/2 mile away.  I hop in my car and head to Oz’s mom’s house to grab the van.  C bundles dd up, and hops in the truck.  I make it there about the same time C does.  She had the foresight to grab every blanket in the house. 

Firetrucks, Ambulances and Police cars are everywhere.  Flames are dancing out of the roof.  Residents stand on the street, watching in shock.  I grab a few blankets and wrap up a few folks (well, first I smile and do the obligatory "shove” of the blanket, like saying “here, I’m harmless”).  We help get people into various vans and SUVs that have all come together to help.  At some point during all of this, dd is dropped off at Great Aunt MT’s house.

But the time I make it back up to City Hall, everyone is huddled in one of the meeting rooms, wrapped up in blankets and sipping coffee or drinking water.  C starts asking what we should do for food.  Do we call Food and Fuel (they’ve always been helpful in the past)?  Do we call Fred’s?  We hear Red Cross is en route, but won’t be in for at least 45 minutes. As we’re working out the details, someone from Edel’s Meat Market pops in to ask what he should bring. Someone else figured that many of the elderly residents lost their medications in the fire, so S from Hermann Drug shows up to take orders

A call to Fred’s was made to order up some chicken.  By 630, C and I have picked up the chicken, corn, mashed potatoes and gravy.  There’s also a request from CP to bring the firefighters some water, coffee and pop.  So after dropping the chicken off, we head up to deliver.  By now, the fire is somewhat under control. About 2/3’s of the east wing’s roof is gone.

After the delivery, we head back up to City Hall to help more. I head up to Fred’s again with a list for RP, drop that off and make it back.  C and Oz decided that dd should be home.  So we hop in the truck and car, go pick dd up from MT’s, and come home.  After tucking her in, c heads back up to City Hall to lend support to Oz, who will be there all night, running the scene from behind the curtain.  As much as I want to be there instead of C, I understand that she will do far better in there than I.

With all the “me first” attitudes we see these days, its refreshing to know that we still have communities that help one another out.  It filled me with pride, to see how quickly this town pulled together to help those in need. Warmth, nourishment, shelter and support; all provided without ever asking. 

From what I understand:  as of 1015PM, all 43 residents have been accounted for, with no injuries.  2 Firefighers were injured, but nothing life threatening: a sprained ankle for one, and various scrapes and scratches for another when the roof caved in on him.

I tell you folks, I am damn proud of our little city here.

A very special thanks to:

  • Mayor Mick McGuire for being right there, in the thick of it, from the first sirens. The news might show him inside City Hall, warm and cozy.  But we saw him on the curb, directing people, standing in the water. 
  • Oz, for being there right after Mick, running the logistics of everything, without ever having socks on.
  • Montgomery Area Fire Department, Emergency Services, and Police Department for doing all they do.
  • New Prague, Kilkenny, and Le Center Fire Departments.
  • All City Office employees for their support.
  • Edel’s Meat Market and Fred’s IGA.

Most of all, I would like to thank the selfless volunteers of the City of Montgomery who were there to help in every way possible. Its folks like you who make our community a true Community.

News reports:

UPDATE 2009.02.25 – I heard from Oz this morning on the ride into work. Overnight, the west wing to the building caught fire. New Prague and Le Center were called out again, and the fire was under control by 0400. Thankfully, there were no reported injuries.

More info here: CityOfMontgomeryMN.com

Music Appreciation 101

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

Friday morning, as I was cleaning the kitchen, I heard an old familiar tune that brought me back to when I was a kid. 

I recall listening to this song, and asking my dad what she was talking about.  What the heck was a Tennessee Flat Top Box?  He explained that it was a guitar.  I couldn’t remember why he told me they called it that, but it just made sense. 

Growing up, I was surrounded by music.  Dad was in the band and mom loved to dance. I remember the cookouts with the “pickin and grinnin”.  Heading down home, grandpa always had a guitar nearby too, and would pick away when the mood struck.  Dad had a “hifi” with some awesome tunes that he loved, as well as mom’s tunes.  I very clearly remember rocking out to mom’s Tina Turner record (best recording of Proud Mary ever). Great times. 

As I grew older, my tastes changed from country classics like Alabama and Charlie Daniels (I shook his hand) and moved along to Motley Crue, GnR and Poison (C’s met Bret several times).  I wanted one of those black silky jackets so bad with {insert band logo here} on it.  Then Hip Hop came on the scene, and I was stuck in there.  Afrikka Bambaatta, Grandmaster Flash and Run D.M.C. gave way to rappers like LL Cool J, NWA and Geto Boys.  In high school, I went back to my roots of country with Garth and Brooks and Dunn, while “layin back” to Snoop Dogg, and snapping my fingers to Ole Blue Eyes.

And here I am now, in my father’s shoes some 30+ years later.  DD hasn’t asked us yet why Dino calls everyone “baby”, or why I like this “noise” called NIN, but I’m sure she will.  At some point, she’ll ask mommy what Bret means by “unskinny bop”, or why Reba always makes her smile. She’ll even ask Oz why they call Elton a bi…. um… Diva.  :)   And we’ll all have the answers for her.  She knows the big band music pretty well by now.  And if you sing Zip a Dee Doo Daa to her, she smile ear to ear…

I hope that, when she’s all grown up, perhaps with a baby of her own, she can  be in the kitchen one morning and hear a simple guitar riff that will send her back to the day she asked her daddy what a flattop box is.

p.s. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!

p.p.s  We’ve moving all the pics over to flickr

The things we learn

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

My how time flies.  Why, just yesterday, it seemed like it was 戊子1, but I digress.

As dd grows, we’re finding that she’s not the only one who’s learning here.  Now granted, she has learned far more than we have over these past few months, such as:

  • How to eat solid foods like mashed potatoes, green beans, peas, apples, bananas, strawberries.
  • How to drink from a sippy cup (still a work in progress).
  • How to cross the living room floor via rolling and inching.  She’s almost ready to crawl.
  • How to giggle on command.
  • How to properly get and maintain mommy and daddy’s attention.
  • How to hack into an unpatched XP machine.

But in the same, mommy and daddy are right there with her, learning that:

  • There are truly not enough hours in the day.
  • dd sleeps very well for her age, but that doesn’t mean we’re not deprived. (UPDATE – Teething pain began in full force)
  • That bright green, blue, and red go really well with our decor of mostly earth tones. 
  • The terminal velocity for a falling toy, how often it needs to be returned to the dropping hand, and how many foreign objects can get stuck on said toy in that short trip.
  • What foods do what to her poop (still in progress).

I’m learning how to not be surprised by noises that come from within bags, boxes, and other carrying apparatuses.  It didn’t throw me off one bit Friday night when I grabbed the reusable Target bag and it sang “C is for Cookie” on the way out to the car. 

Mommy is learning how to make her own baby food.  Saturday night, we were up late boiling, peeling, mashing and packaging Bananas, Peas, Carrots and Peaches2. She has also made 2 sets of just awesome cookies.  Her latest batch, the macadamia nut cookies, just get better with each cookie. In fact, the last one I had Saturday was the best yet. And to think, LOD could’ve had that one.  ;)

Lastly, we’re both learning patience well beyond what we thought was possible. But I have to say the biggest thing we’ve learned is truly how cool it is to be a parent.  Its just awesome. 

  1. thank you, wiki – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_Astrology#Table_of_the_sixty_year_calendar []
  2. Save those baby food containers (we used Gerber).  We filled at least 40 that night []

I have an amazing job

Saturday, December 27th, 2008

I’d like to brag for a moment, if I may. Professionally, I’m a computer security guy. I hold the CISSP and GSEC certificates, along with a couple other very specialized certs. I build very secure computers for very specific needs. I also deal with a handful of administrative and managerial tasks within the security organization, and still offer up my technical knowledge to those who ask for it. For once in my career, I work in a position that I take pride in, as well as feeling like what I do can make a difference.

Outside of my corporate job, I am a web developer and independent consultant. One of the local businesses relies entirely on my knowledge and expertise to make sure their IT infrastructure continues to operate as expected. And this year, I was invited to become a SANS Mentor, asked to host a community education event, and speak at one of the business luncheons regarding wireless security.

But all of this pales in comparison to my latest endeavor. The pay is less than expected, but the rewards are endless. As I sat here this morning, still trying to wipe the sleep out of my eyes and snot off my shoulder, I was rewarded once again. Watching some show on engineering drilling platforms in the Gulf, I listened to dd’s feint snore/snortle on my left shoulder as she slept. Rubbing her back and hearing her breathing patterns change. Realizing that I help create this little child of ours.

Yes, folks, I have an amazing job. I am a husband and a father. Everything else I’ve done and do pale in comparison.